How To Stop Going Through The Motions And Escape The Rat Race
There are times when you feel like you are doing and doing without anything to show for your efforts. You are running the rat race.
It may be in your workplace, your business or relationships. Things are not progressing.
You look at your skills, degrees, and accolades. You have no evidence to back them up. If your life were a scale, your knowledge would weigh tons and your assets would weigh ounces.
So, what do you do? How do you stop going through the motions?
3 Ways To Escape The Rat Race
Have you ever seen how the squirrels are so busy during the warm seasons gathering seeds? Why? They are storing for the bad seasons when they can’t get out.
You need to do the same. In your case, I’m not talking about seeds. I’m talking about knowledge and wisdom.
Notice how I say to gather NEW seeds. It’s because I know you already have some knowledge. But during these times of unprecedented and disruptive change, you need to upgrade your mind. You need new skills.
Let’s face it. None of us were ready for this new world we are.
That’s why you must embrace change and pivot.
You cannot afford to be a dinosaur. You must renew your mind. You must become another you to deal with your current challenges. You have to start flooding your mind with new information.
Read Lots of Books.
Most people are not reading anymore. They prefer to either watch a short video online or read a blog post. The problem with that is not enough depth into the subject. And the information tends to be unorganized.
Let’s say you want to learn how to boost your self-esteem. You need to read a book that goes deep into the subject so you can take note and apply what you learn.
That said, I suggest you start reading personal development books. You want to start getting better so your situation can get better.
When you get better, everything gets better. Your business, performance in the workplace, and relationships automatically improve. It’s like magic!
Here are a few of the classic books on personal improvement I recommend:
Start with the following books:
- Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
- The Magic of Thinking Big by David J. Schwartz
- The Magic of Believing by Claude Bristol
- How to Win Friends And Influence People by Napoleon Hill.
- The Power Of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peal
- Kick Your Excuses Goodbye by yours truly Rene Godefroy
Of course, I suggest you read my book Kick Your Excuses Goodbye. People from all over the world tell me how it transformed their lives.
Next, you want to start upgrading your current skills so you can stay relevant. Attend some seminars. Enroll in some online classes. There are many of them. Checkout www.lynda.com. There you can master pretty much anything you want.
Finally, get a coach or mentor. You are never too smart to get a coach. The best athletes in the world have many coaching. The billionaires and millionaires have coaches. The presidents of countries have coaches which they call advisors.
As you begin to get better in every area of your life, there will be those who will try to deter and distract you.
I’m referring to the jealous people, the player haters, and the negative people in your environment.
Do not allow them to slow you down. Take an oath of allegiance to protect and defend yourself against those enemies. Don’t let them invade your territory
Think of it this way: If you work hard and save money, don’t let someone steal it. Your attitude, knowledge, and skills are your intellectual capitals. Protect them. Here’s how to protect them:
Dead stocks are outdated merchandises in the retail industry. They diminish the value of the other merchandises. Therefore, they have to get rid of them.
It’s the same for you. You have friends and family members who are dead stocks. Get rid of them.
They are those who tend to put you down, discourage you, and make you feel less of yourself. Those people can destroy you physically and morally.
You need to surround yourself with cheerleaders, encouragers. And those who are fans. They are rooting for you. They want you to succeed. They are contributing to your wellbeing. They rekindle your spirit. They inspire you to dream bigger.
Simply put, do not keep around those you are barely tolerating. Make a list of all the people you spend time with and start checking off some names. Take a break from them to working on yourself and your dream.
I’m not talking about hating or getting even. No. In fact, you should never badmouth anybody.
Be kind about the way you begin to get rid of your dead stocks.
When you are in a conversation, and the name of the person comes up, always say something positive and uplifting.
What I’m trying to convey to you is this: Your situation will never improve until you improve. Change your circumstances require personal change. When you change, everything changes instantly.
However, you need to protect the new you from predators and miserable people.
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